Monday, March 19, 2012

一个很亲近的人传了这样一封写给自己的信给我。

親愛的自己,從今天起為了自己驕傲的活著吧,好好愛自己,沒有人會心疼你。
親愛的自己,不要太在意一些人太在乎一些事,順其自然以最佳心態面對,因為這世界就是這麼不公平往往在最在乎的事物面前我們最沒有價值。
親愛的自己,永遠不要為難自己,比如不吃飯、哭泣、自閉、抑鬱,這些都是傻瓜才做的事。
親愛的自己,學會聰明一點,不要老是問周圍的人一些很白癡的問題,那真的很無聊。
親愛的自己,如果不開心了就找個角落或者在被子裏哭一下,你不需要別人同情可憐,哭過之後一樣可以開心生活。
親愛的自己,學會控制自己的情緒,誰都不欠你,所以你沒有道理跟別人隨便發脾氣,耍性子。
親愛的自己,你可以失望但不能絕望,你要始終相信,tomorrow is another day.
親愛的自己,你不要老是想依賴別人,更不能奢望別人在你需要的時候第一時間站出來,畢竟你們誰都不是誰的誰。
親愛的自己,永遠不要輕易對別人許下承諾,許下的承諾就是欠下的債!
親愛的自己,這個世界只有回不去的而沒有什麼是過不去的。


这些, 很贴切的形容了我想要过, 并努力过着的生活。
也许有点自我, 但日子总是这样才能过得洒脱又快乐。至少我是这样认为的。
是有点自私 -- 并不是不为别人着想的那种自私。
24岁的我, 已经不会为了别人委屈自己, 也不知不觉在自己和别人中间建立起一堵用友善包装的墙。
我没办法因为不想扫兴就逼迫自己呆在不想去的地方, 也可以随时因为想要出门就一个人上路。
唯一不变的是, 从来不想伤害任何人。
我觉得找到了一点点的自己。
我很快乐。


Saturday, March 17, 2012


Scrambled egg with Croissant



Latte 

Perth Landscape in the night

Music by Moonlight

Chick lits 

Perth Landscape in the afternoon

Kiddo and his Chiliz
 

Manga and lunch

Colorful day

Dancers and singer

So that's how my week was. During my off-days, I visit cafes where I enjoy the food and the ambiance. I went to Music by Moonlight, an orchestra concert performed by WA Youth Orchestra. It was an enchanting night. I hang out with sister after work sometimes. We read chick lits while sun-bathing by the river. Today, we had a karaoke session after we had lunch at Farmosa Cafe in Northbridge. Don't get cheated by its look, food in Farmosa sucks. The only reason I would be there was the manga collection of theirs. Eat Drink Perth is currently happening in Perth and I totally enjoy what the festival has brought into Perth.

Monday, March 12, 2012

It's March already.

Can you believe it's already mid March?

I am doing good here.
I'm still working hard to reach my goal, yet this never stops me from enjoy what life has to offer me.
I'm eating good and healthy, picking up new (and old) hobbies, trying to make exercising a daily routine. 





Happiness always comes when I least expected it.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Not a big achievement in life certainly, but I am graduated from uni today!
End of 17 years of formal education!
Time to get a real job *fingers crossed*
:)  

Monday, January 2, 2012

Hello 2012!

It's the second day of 2012 already! I'm not too late for new year resolutions and goals, am I?

  1. Have a healthy lifestyle, ie fixed sleeping time, drink more water, eat healthy and if indulge in too much fattening/unhealthy food, make sure I myself burn them out! I'm pretty sure my metabolism slowed down throughout 2011 as I haven't been worked out much. Since my university life has officially come to an end this year, I am gonna spend some time working out. 
  2. Less time on Facebook, more on real people and stuffs. I don't wanna hear myself saying no time for something (eg house chores) but still find time to go on Facebook.
  3. Get a full-time job. The stress of job-hunting has started creeping in already! It is not easy and can get frustrating as time goes by. But I shall try my best and never lose faith in myself.
  4. Earn and save. Meanwhile, I'm still keeping my part-time job. Hopefully by August the income is enough to fund my youngest sister and myself a trip!
  5. Be a better person. More patience =P I also need to loosen up and just have fun.
I'm also gonna:
  1. Use the real camera more, instead of iPhone (of course I will still use iPhone camera).
  2. Date more. =P D and I definitely need some time hanging out with only ourselves.
  3. Call/Whatsapp my youngest sister more.
  4. Call/Whatsapp my friends more. 
  5. Be more adventurous in the kitchen. 

Friday, December 30, 2011

2011 in a nutshell

2 days to the end of 2011! Just how quick time flies.. (I know I say this all the time but this year passed real quick!)


2011 was, well, not too bad for me. In fact it was good, as it was my final year in uni. Some of my best memories this year were:
  1. D's graduation. Holding a degree does not make you somebody or even anybody. But I can't help feeling happy for him. It wasn't easy to earn that degree after all.
  2. Seeing grapes hanging on the vines with my own eyes for the first time. I know I'm such a sakai but they were beautiful.
  3. Studying hard/ doing assignments in the libraries, computer labs or sometimes at home. Did I tell you that I'm a fresh graduate who's awaiting her graduation ceremony in February? 
  4. Family in Perth. I had so much fun when my youngest brother is around. Kids see things differently and if you try to see world through their eyes, you'd find the world so interesting!
  5. Working part-time in Sushi Sushi Carousel, where I met new friends and learnt new things. 
  6. Breakfasts with D. We had breakfasts together very often this year. Sometimes western, cafe style breakfast; sometimes we had dim sum. I love both. :) Also discovered Toast in East Perth, which is now my favourite place for brunch.
  7. Design Project which I spent 1 semester doing it. Clarification of Alumina Refinery, flocculation, SysCAD.. I'd never forget these terms I think. I was lucky to have good teammates who support each other and able to do tasks individually. 
  8. Birthday dinners and surprise. I have an awesome bunch of friends who never say no when I call them up for dinner. :) I have another great bunch of friends who were kind enough to surprise me with a cake. Last but not the least, an awesome boyfriend who gave me an iPad2 for my birthday!
  9. Kayaking sessions with friends. 2 times this year! I love kayaking, I love Mandurah, I love spending my afternoon sipping a coffee by the river and chatting with you guys.
  10. Dinner at Friends' Restaurant. My first ever 2 Michelin star experience! Had a romantic dinner and I was grateful that I chose a loose dress that night. 5-course of fine food (aka small portion food) is still able to blow your tummy. 
  11. Bali Trip with family. Definitely highlight of the year. I tried jet-skiing for the first time in my life and I love it! Spent some quality time with family during the trip. We talked and laughed and played and relaxed. I miss the sea, the beach and the swimming pool already!














There are actually more, eg hang outs with course-mates where we played board games and talked about plans and future over coffee. Also my Taka sessions with dear friends. etc etc.

Isn't 2011 good? Now it's time to wave it goodbye and welcome 2012.

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

最远的距离


也许不是我在你面前, 你却不知道我爱你。
而是 我们相爱,却不能在一起。

二十岁的我, 曾经觉得没有问题是相爱的两个人解决不了的。
三年后的我, 觉得世界上本来就很多解决不了的难题。
爱情, 有时候是束缚, 束缚着自主。

但 爱情, 更多时候是两个人一起学习成长。